Zelle is truly No Domme Blonde! If you've read her column and you want to talk about it- here's her corner! Be careful though, this pussycat has claws and sharp teeth for those that don't respect her!
Now Darlin'.. don't go scaring them away.. when you know I love nothing better than having my back stroked and my tummy rubbed... LOL.. I will give them a new meaning to "Cat Scratch Fever" though. LOL
_Can you say lynch mob?_
TwistedOliver. There are already magazines galore that cater to your neanderthal view on women. I suggest you go look some of them up. Trufetish is an open forum and Zelle is writing for me as an Alpha Sub, and so is perfectly entitled to her opinion. If you wish to challenge her viewpoint as you've done so in this forum, by all means do so. However if all you are trying to do is start a flame war, which I have heard of you instigating on more than one occasion on other sites, that will not be tolerated. Personally I think people who live just to create strife on social sites by making threads like this erupt into chaos, really have way too much time on their hands.
Differing opinions are highly encouraged on Trufetish.com. Vicious personal attacks just to get people riled up are not. Flamers will be banned. I cannot control your antagonism of people on other sites, but I can here.
Funnily enough, more than half my audience are Dominant men, including two of my writers, and all read Zelle's post with high amusement.It makes me wonder if perhaps Zelle's post hit a little too close to home for you for comfort.
There is such a thing as satire. I suggest you look up the word on Wikipeda and try to integrate it.
I read the article that TwistedOliver commented about too. Even as a female I thought it smacked of male bashing. Had his response not so closely resembled the outline used by Zelle I would be ready to lynch him myself. But the fact is, the man does make some good points. At first I thought maybe you should ask him to write an article to menopausal women, but on thinking it over I do have to agree with him that it really should be zelle's job. She is, after all, the just right age to address this audience and I am sure she would do it with much more sensitivity and humor than was demonstrated in Twisted Oliver’s comment.
How unabashedly FUNNY. TwistedOliver and Sammy are both using the same IP address. Hmm.
UR kidding, right? C'mon. Zelle was hilarious. I'm a Dom. I totally get y a girl (woman sorry Z) would get frustrated if her guy was trying to Dom her and couldn't get it up. I agree. Sounds like this guy has a chip on his shoulder and something to prove. Viagra dude. And chill out.
I think so too. This guy is just madat women cause he can't get it up. www.viagra.com and stop picking on Zelle. And how uncool to pretend to be someone else just to make yourslef look good?
Hello everyone. I am a seventy two year old Gentleman Dom. I've read Zelle's article and enjoyed it. It made me laugh, which was what it was intended to do. I did not take offense to it at all. I think she is correct in her statements although obviously she speaks sharply, because this is after all, a humorous peice of writing. I take Viagra myself and although I realize that it's a sensitive issue to those who are not secure in their sexuality, you must understand that your subs have needs that should be filled, and that Viagra is a bonifide way to address a rampant sexual dysfunction. Too many men see their lady suggesting it as a blow to their masculinity instead of an attempt to enrich BOTH of their lives.
Yes, Zelle pushed addressing this dysfunction to a very funny limit that may have bordered on insulting to some, but that is the point of good satire.
I would suggest that the gentleman who has been giving her such a hard time here address his own insecurities that cause him to have gotten so angry with Zelle for her thoughts.
I think Zelle's column is great! if twisted oliver doesn't like it, tell him to go read penthouse. Probably more on his intellectual level anyway.
Easy now kids, you are all bordering on being antagonistic to poor TwistedOliver. Although it is nice to see Zelle get so much support which she richly deserves, remember the rules of the forum. Let's try to keep this on a debate level and not degrade into the kind of name calling and vicious attacks that I've seen on other sites from the same people. There they know they can get away with it. Here, they need to behave or they get bumped.
TwistedOliver challenged how our audience may feel if an article was written from the opposing side. Telling women how they should address their wrinkles, and menopausal fat, and sagging tits. I say to that.... society does exactly that on an ongoing basis. Girls are raised from infancy to think that they must have a certain body shape, a certain "look", and as they get older the pressure just increases. Plastic Surgery is at an all time high. Women's self esteem is plucked from the covers of high fashion magazines. Eating Disorders and depression from body image run rampant. Women are constantly in pursuit of ways to "stay young and beautiful" and spend thousands per year on creams, treatments, surgeries, and makeup. It's horrible.
Zelle's call to arms for men to address their sexual dysfunction pales in comparison to the pressure American women are under on a daily basis. It is, however, a unique call to arms.... for once the man was under the gun instead of the woman and that is what men like TwistedOliver do not like. Much easier to be the instigator and the aggressor than to have someone get back in your face and say "You know what, you're not 'all that'. You could use some improvement. Now step the fuck up to the plate."
So again, no, TwistedOliver, I do not feel the need for anyone to write an opposing view on this column on my site. The world is already filled with the other (and much more severe) side of this. So, I'd say... take your medicine like a good boy and let Miss Zelle do her thing. If you can productively debate her point you are welcome on the forum. If you just want to antagonize her like you do on other sites, you are not.
In response to the allegation that TwistedOliver and Sammy had the same IP address... that is false.
I posted under the guest name "Sammy"
My IP is from tampabay, to my knowledge TwistedOliver is not even in Florida. I would appreciate that comment being removed, as it is not at all true.
"Girls are raised from infancy to think that they must have a certain body shape, a certain "look", and as they get older the pressure just increases." I have to say, that I was never given the impression growing up that I must have any particular "look" or body shape.
comment is not being removed, IP is still showing the same.
And by the way "Deaja", if you think I don't know about your comments about my "shitty site" on other sites... where you have no qualms and badmouthing others and namecalling where you know you can't get called out on it, think again. This is my forum. Say what you like on other sites, but keep your ass in line on mine or I will boot you. You are on here at the moment by my graces.
I'm sorry, but I'd like to see that proven. This is a Free Forum Hosting, Lefora and does not offer you the option of viewing user IP's to begin with...
Feel free to momentarily add me to messenger, and I will gladly show you how to gain my exact IP address from that open conversation window. hisboot@msn.com
who says I'm using Lefora to track IPs?
That's the beauty of being married for ten years to an IT security specialist... you learn all kinds of neat tricks
I know the beauty of an IT security specialist myself ;)
So.... prove it or remove the allegation
Thank you for letting me know you saw my comments, I appreciate it. If you saw the comments, then you also saw the reason why I did not originally post my comments on the fetlife thread... but, again, thank you for taking notice.
LilWhip:
I always try to give credit where credit is due. And I applaud you for taking your posters to task for doing what you admonished me not to do. The facts speak for themself. I in no way bashed Zelle on this site. And I did not bash women. I merely presented the flip side of the coin and asked if it would be taken well by females readers. Like Zelle did about the aging of men, I sited well know facts about women and aging. So I still dont see why you called me neandrathal etc. and how you could possibly have seen me as bashing Zelle personally. It was in fact what you recommned in your latest post. I directly asked her and you to look at the flip side of the coin. I used no vulgar or degrading language. I cast no aspersions on Zelle's or your health etc. and I didnt deride anyone. I merely stated an opinion and gave examples of how the flip side of the coin might look. I think I followed your guidelines to a T.
And now since deaja has come forth and stated the she is Sammy I ask you to explain your claim that we both used the same IP. She is in Florida, I am in CT. As anyone who knows me will tell you, I fight fair. I dont need to make up bogus accounts. Nor do I make statements I cant back up. So just where did you get the info that we had the same IP? I will of course accept your apology anytime you are ready to own up to your mistake!
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